‘A Man’s Place‘ is Annie Ernaux’ ode to her father. In the book about her mother, Annie Ernaux compares her father and mother and says this :
“He took me to the funfair, to the circus, and to see Fernandel’s films. He taught me how to ride a bicycle and recognize the garden vegetables. With him I had fun, with her I had “conversations”.”
Ernaux expands on that in this book, by going back to the beginning, to her grandparents’ time, describes the environment her father grew up in, how her grandfather hated people who read because he himself couldn’t read or write, how her father did well in school but was still taken off school when he was around twelve years old and made to work in a farm and earn his keep. And how because of this Ernaux’ father always wanted her to do well academically and was proud of her achievements.
‘A Man’s Place‘ takes us back to a different era, to early twentieth century France and makes us see the world through the eyes of a twelve year old boy who becomes a farmworker, then a factory worker, who fights in the First World War and later gets into the grocery and cafe business with his wife. I liked it very much. Though I liked Ernaux’ book on her mother, ‘A Woman’s Story‘ even more, ‘A Man’s Place‘ complements that perfectly, as we get to know about Ernaux’ father.
I’ll leave you with some of my favourite passages from the book.
“He had to walk two kilometres to get to school…The teacher was a harsh man, rapped the boys’ fingers with an iron ruler, he was respected. Some of his pupils ended up among the best in their canton to have passed their primary certificate; one or two even made it to teachers’ training college. My father missed class when he had to harvest the apples, tie the straw and hay into sheaves, and sow and reap whatever was in season. When he and his elder brother went back to school, the master would yell : “So your parents want you to remain as ignorant as they are!” He managed to learn how to read and write properly. He liked learning. He liked drawing too…At the age of twelve, he was due to take the primary certificate. My grandfather took him out of school and got him a job on the same farm as him. He could no longer be fed without paying his way. “We didn’t even think about it, it was the same for everyone.””
“…it took me years to ‘understand’ the kindliness with which well-mannered people greet each other. At first, I felt ashamed, I didn’t deserve such consideration. Sometimes I thought they had conceived a particular liking for me. Later I realized that their smiling faces and kind, earnest questions meant nothing more to them than eating with their mouth shut or blowing their noses discreetly.”
I read this for ‘Reading Independent Publishers Month‘ hosted by Kaggsy from Kaggsy’s Bookish Ramblings and Lizzy from Lizzy’s Literary Life, an event which celebrates indie publishers for the whole of February. The edition of ‘A Man’s Place’ I read was published by Fitzcarraldo Editions.
Have you read ‘A Man’s Place‘? What do you think about it?
Another Ernaux, you’re getting to know her family well. That’s an interesting quote about the kindliness of well-mannered people and the mis-judgement of their intentions, that happens across cultures often, those cues that mean something else elsewhere, what seem like signs of friendship are mere politeness or curiosity.
Yes, it is nice to get to know her family, Claire 😊 I loved what you said about the kindliness of well-mannered people, across cultures. I remember Minae Mizumura exploring it a little in her book ‘A True Novel’. It is very interesting to think about.
Having read A Mother’s Story I guess I need to read this next! Thanks for an intriguing review Vishy
Hope you enjoy reading this book, Kim 😊 Glad you liked A Mother’s Story. Will look forward to hearing your thoughts on this one. Happy reading!
Well, I’ve got to find it first. These editions not easy to get in Australia… and I’m no longer buying books online because my book buying was out of control when I lived in the UK.
Hope you are able to find it, Kim. Hope your favourite bookshop is able to get it for you 🙂
So lovely, Vishy. From the mood in the passages which you have shared, I deduce how intense Ernaux relationship with her mother was, and how functional her relationship with her father seemed.
Glad you liked it, Deepika 😊 Yes, Ernaux’ relationship with her mother and father seems to have been very different. I liked both her parents in different ways. It was nice that she wrote a separate books dedicated to them.
I thought it was an excellent book, Vishy, and captured so well the changing times she and her family lived through. There was a real shift in lifestyles in France, moving from the country style of living to a more modern, urban style and the book really brought that alive.
Glad you liked it too, Kaggsy 😊 Loved what you said about the book. I loved that aspect of the book. I also loved her dad – a very fascinating person. It felt sad when she could no longer share things with him when she went to college, because the intellectual gap between them widened.